I`m aggressive, I`m angry and I let it out- this is a frequent situation:

me: Where are the keys? .......(searching but not finding them)
Fuck, where are they?...(I`m in hurry)

he: I don`t know...

me: Fucking shit! Damn it! Where the fuck are they? (I get angry, am pissed off...start to kick things around)
I cant stand this fuckin messy shit.!!!!....(at this point sometimes i begin to threw things)

he: Hey, what`s up?

me: NOTHING!!

he (cant stand this): now, what`s the problem? I can´t simply ignore that you`re angry...

me: Just let me....I need that.....I don´t mean to hurt you....It`s just MY problem.

he: I cant cope with such situatuions- youre in rage and I can`t help...

me: You CAN`T help! Just leave me! Ignore it! Ignore me!
Here lies the KEY.